You could be wearing a couture gown hand-stitched by angels, but if you walk around like you’re apologizing for existing, even your clothes will start questioning their life choices. Meanwhile, someone else could rock pajamas and make it look like a fashion statement. What’s their secret? Confidence. Watching my daughter absolutely rock a light blue coat, I realize once again - confidence is the secret weapon to any outfit.
So, how to get that hue of confidence from your wardrobe?
The Outfit-Vibe Connection
Here’s the deal: your clothes don’t just sit there—they feed off your energy. A bold red dress on someone oozing confidence says, “I’m here to slay.” On someone nervously clutching their purse? It whispers, “Please don’t spill coffee on me.” Same dress, wildly different vibes.
Think of your attitude as the power source for your outfit. Strong energy? You’re unstoppable. Weak energy? Even the sparkliest outfit won’t shine.
Same outfit - more confidence? Here are some hacks (no shopping required)
Stand Like a Superhero: Channel your inner power. Bonus points if you hum a power song.
Pep Talk Yourself: Focus on your strongest side, your best feature. You know what it is, even if sometimes you don't think it is there. Focus on it and it will grow with that energy.
Remember: Nobody Notices Your Flaws: Seriously, everyone’s too busy worrying about their own hair and thighs.
Believe your friend: You are amazing. If you don't think I know you well enough to say that, call a friend, ask them!
Wear Sunglasses Indoors: Just kidding. Unless you’re a rockstar.
Authenticity is Hilariously Underrated
Nothing kills a look faster than wearing something that doesn’t feel like you. I If you hate bow ties but wear one anyway, don’t be surprised if you feel like a stressed-out penguin, it's confusing for everyone involved. If you’re a sneakers-and-jeans person, don’t force yourself into stilettos and sequins unless you’re really feeling it. Your vibe will always be strongest when you’re comfortable being you. It is always YOU. Your outfit is just a backup dancer in your life’s music video. Trust me, I am a professional.
Yet, if you are still looking for that style hack to make you look like the best version of youself - call me. :)
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